I remember when I was young, like 20 years old, my best friend said to me: "Do you know you are a Dominant?" And I said "What are you talking about".... I'm smiling now... 25 years later...
Yes, it is a question of the "Moment"... when you are ready to learn more about yourself. I had to wait 13 years, more or less, and come to Second Life - this crazy, virtual world, to hear, explore and realize, something was missing during my life...
It was not easy at the first, because it was a shock about all my guidelines but... it was so beautifull. After 12 years of experience, in RL and SL, I can say... I know who I am, I know and love my Dom side, because for me guiding, caring, teaching, protecting a submissive is my nature, it isn't a "role", but is the truth.
"A Dominant knows how to Own himself, before Owning a submissive"
Phenix.